Start thinking why people do what they do around you, and stop trying to make people feel bad for doing what they do around you.
My biggest fear is the feeling of free falling. I’ve done it several times in my life but I’ve never been able to conquer that terrifying sensation I get form it - that of not being in any control. Trusting in someone to be telling the truth seems much the same to me. I have no control over it and simply have to rely on someone else to be honest.
I think that may slowly be overtaking as my new fear.